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Mmmmm. So much resonates here. For me, there is paradox. The thought of not living a life that allows me to roam, to feel myself more and more a citizen of the world is, yes, cause for despair. There is also despair at missing what might be missed by not watching the rhythm of change in a single spot for a long time, by missing what might be missed by not being near family on a regular, enduring basis.

I used to believe I needed to find a partner who would be home no matter which tug I followed. More and more, I’m learning it’s me.

As for whether or not I am trending toward staying longer, yes and no. My lengths of stays during different nomadic periods have varied greatly. I’ve also had years-long periods of staying in the same place between roaming times.

Another great post, Mateus. Thank you.

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This message was mind-blowing, Holly. I read it in the morning and spent all my day reflecting on it. That's it. The future is unpredictable, but we can vary the lenghts according to the moment of our life. There is no ideal pattern, unless the one we are feeling in that moment. Thank you.

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Mateus, thank you! It’s really wonderful to have others who think about moving through this world in similar ways to talk to about it. :)

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Yeah, it's amazing, Holly. Let's keep in touch :)

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Yes please. :)

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Mateus, you’ve written a primer for nomads. It’s great insight for others who are on this path while also being aware where you’re at in the nomadic process. Write on.

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Thanks, Jeanine. This message motivates me a lot. I'll keep writing.

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Great. Informative for sure, by someone who’s living it in real time. Have a great weekend!

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